Reference No. KF-002
The child was never the son.
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Not Her Son / Still Her Baby
She loved who she raised. I wrote what was entrusted to me.
Not the easiest. But the most necessary.
The one carrying kitchen conversations and hospital vigils, misnamed love and claimed presence.
It’s not about being accepted.
It’s about being witnessed.
About a mother who showed up in presence, if not in language—and the one who kept living anyway.
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Section II: The Ones Who Raised Me (and Didn’t)
Essays to look forward to—
They remain in the archive. But they will speak.
• Uncle Who Showed Me How to Talk Back
• She Never Called Me Nephew Again
• The Godmother with No Church
• Instructions for Running Away and Still Being Loved
• The Day My Mama Found the Lipstick
• Not Her Son / Still Her Baby
• Aunt Mae Had a Word for Every Kind of Boy
• Someone Opened the Window and It Was Me
For now, we continue with complicated love.
And the one who kept living anyway.
This is only the second breath.
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